Journal 2004

Journal 1

Glenna and Harry’s Excellent Adventure 

Hi friends and family,
Harry and I are about to leave on a trip to Israel on July 20 until August 3.  Some of you know all about it and asked to be on this list to get journals from our trip.  Others of you had no idea this was coming.  Briefly, I have been invited to go to Israel by an Arab-Israeli professor, Dr. Taha Massalha, to visit his country, meet his Jewish, Christian, Druze and Muslim friends.  I have been invited to speak to his students and fellow professors at his college in Haifa.  Harry will teach English classes.   I (Glenna) will do most of the writing for this journal, with additions and final editing done by Harry.

Taha lives near Nazareth, and will give us a short tour of the Nazareth, Sea of Galilee and Jordan River area.  We will also spend a day in Jerusalem.  I am excited about this opportunity to experience a cultural and educational exchange, and do what I can to achieve better cultural understanding by sharing our experiences with you our friends and family as well as bring back science projects to do in collaboration between my students and Israeli students.

If you want to receive our journals while we are in Israel, do nothing, and I will leave your name on the list.  I will not send pictures with the journals because some folks are on dial up, and the time lag would be tremendous.  I will also post the journals (hopefully) on my school web site as soon as possible.  If you would rather just check out the web site, then let me know and I will delete your name from this list.  The web site will be www.wbschools.com/pearson

If you have any questions for Taha or his friends, please send them to me and I will do what I can to get them answered.  Jim Mansfield gave me my first question for Taha.  It is, “If you were to follow your religion to the letter, COULD you live in peace with your fellow Israeli countrymen?” (Did I get it right, Jim?)  This question is intended for members of all four religions.  Interesting, question, isn’t it?

Journal 2

The First Day 

July 20/21

Harry and I left home around 7:30 AM to make sure we were in Boston in plenty of time.  Don and Dee were gracious enough to drive us into the airport.  We did a good job not being late as we were 4 hours early for our flight.  There were no problems, except for El Al’s (the airline) desire to know all about us, our motives for visiting, who we were visiting, if we spoke Hebrew, where we were going in Israel, and on and on.  NOTHING will ever get by these people.  We flew out of Boston to Kennedy Airport in New York.  We had a short layover and then on to Israel, on a direct flight from New York to Tel Aviv.  We arrived in Israel at about 2 AM on Wednesday, our time, 9 AM Israel time.  We did not sleep much, but that was to be expected. The obvious ethnic mix on the plane was very interesting.

When we arrived in Israel's Tel Aviv Airport, we waited for Customs, and though they questioned why we were in the country, I found it to be no different than going into Japan.  I expected to see many soldiers with machine guns and found none.   We got our luggage and met Dr. Taha Massalha at the exit.  Except for the signs in Arabic, Hebrew and English, it could have been an airport anywhere.

We drove from Tel-Aviv to Daburriya, which is in the north part of the country, near Nazareth and at the foot of the Mt. Tabor.  This small village is the home of the Massalha family.  It was an uneventful trip, except for the time we passed the wall separating the West Bank from Israel.  It is a tall cement structure.   We did not see any activity around it.  Taha said the wall may go right through a community.  Where it used to take ten minutes to visit your brother across town, it may take hours now.

According to Taha, before 1948, there were about 3 million Arabs and 1/2 million Jews in Israel.  After 1948, most Arabs were forced to leave, and they were not paid for their land.  The Jews came in and drove them from their homes and took the land.  Some mosques were turned into museums and restaurants.  If the Arabs protested, they were sent from the country.  Those who cooperated, got to stay.  Many educated Arabs left on their own and went to Europe and the United States.  The Zionists believe the land belongs to the Jews, and they had a right to it.  To be fair to the Jews, the U.N. awarded the land to the Jews as their own country.  Unfortunately, the issue of the resident Arabs was not addressed at that time.

The Arabs can vote but with such a minority (15%), it is of little use. They get equal or higher taxes to the Jews, but their schools and roads do not get equal attention.

Dabburiya is a small town of about 7000 people.  They have two elementary schools, a middle school and a high school.  Mt. Tabor is the highest mountain in the area, and is about 600 meters above sea level.

When we arrived in Dabburiya, we had lunch.  We were taught to say “Psm alh arhman arhem.” which means, “In the name of God who gives mercy and kindness.”  We were given a snack of prickly pear fruit while waiting for lunch. Lunch was sumptuous.  We had chicken, a rice pilaf, cucumber pickles, baked vegetables, (potatoes, tomato and onions) There was also soup, which they sometimes ladle over their rice.   The Massalha family, like almost all Arabs, does not use forks.  They use spoons, bread or fingers for almost everything.

On the living room sofa, there were sofa cushions which had crocheted doilies like my sister might make.  Students wear uniforms to school, and young people do not live together before marriage. Islam women cover their bodies, heads and arms, when they reach ten years old.   Dina (Taha’s wife) did not do this until she was older. She then read the Koran and learned that it was better to follow it.  So now she covers her head, arms and legs.  For the beach, she has clothing that covers her whole body. Everyone has cell phones, and believe it or not, their use is even more widespread than In the USA.  They have sofas and other furniture as you would see in the US.  The children were playing Age of Empires on an HP computer.

The Arab men can marry outside the faith but women can not.  Observant Muslims do not drink alcohol. If a man marries outside the faith, it must be with a Christian or Jew, that is, those who follow God.  Men can marry up to four women, but must be able to provide for them and give them equal attention in all things.   They do not all live in the same house, they live in separate houses.  The man goes from one house to another.  I asked Dina how she would feel if Taha married another woman and she said it would be ok because it is in the Koran.  Dina is a very devout Muslim woman.

The Massalha Family

Taha – Father:  professor of physics and supervises student teachers
Dina – Mother: full time housewife
Yasmeen - married daughter:  Elementary teacher, and English teacher during summer.
Elham – Daughter:  student in Technion in Haifa.  A highly prestigeous school, equivalent to MIT.
Mohammed – Son:  Studying plastics engineering in college in Tel-Aviv
Auob – Son:  High school
Esmaeel – Son:  High school
Yehya – Son:  Very active junior high student,12 years old

Journal 3

Some Background Information

Thursday, July 22

To review how this all started, I met Dr. Taha Massalha at a National Science Teacher's Association in Atlanta, Georgia.  He told me of a sunrise/sunset experiment, and we decided to collaborate on it.   He then invited me and my husband to go to Israel.  We are in Dubburiya, Israel, staying in his home with his wife and five of his six children.  By the way, if my spelling of Dubburiya is not consistent, that’s because it’s English spelling isn’t consistent here.  At the beginning of the road that leads to the village, there are three signs spelling out the name.  All three signs spell it differently.  This relaxed (!) view of spelling makes it very interesting for us to determine where we are on maps.  Are we looking at a different place or just a different spelling?  Curiouser and curiouser.

Taha and NSTA
Taha has been to three NSTA national conventions; Orlando, St. Louis and Atlanta.  In 1998 he wrote to Sylvia Shagrue, who is a past president of NSTA.  He told her about his sunrise/sunset experiments and she invited him to come to Atlanta to present his ideas.  

Taha and Shenkar College of Engineering and Design
Taha took us to a college in Afula, a small city west of Dabburiya.  He is on the Board of Directors of Shenkar College of Engineering and Design.  It is a college that is open to everyone, Christian, Jew, Muslim and Druze.  They study such topics as plastics engineering and computer engineering.   You can check it out at http://www.shenkar.ac.il/

Arab Girls and Education
Taha's second daughter, Elham, is a student at the Technion in Haifa. The Technion is the equivalent of MIT in Massachusetts.  She is working to be a Materials Engineers.  She will work with bio materials, such as replacement body parts (knees and hips).  Arab women are becoming better educated than men.  It is easier for a woman to get a husband if she is educated.  The most men work outside the home at the jobs that are available to Arabs, such as construction and agriculture.  Very few Arabs can get white collar work in any area except education, which pays very poorly.  Women work in the home raising the children, and it is important that she be educated for this important job.   Families recognize that an educated wife helps to have an educated society. Taha would like to help more Arabs become engineers, so they will have more choices.

Taha's Father
Taha's father was an Arab-Palestinian farmer before 1948.  His mother was a homemaker.  She could not read or write. His father could read and write, but only in Arabic.  (Taha is fully fluent in Arabic, Hebrew and English).  According to Taha, his father was a farmer with 50 dunum.  A duum is about 1000 square meters.   This was a good sized farm.  When the Jews came to power in 1948, they took almost all of his father's land, and left him with only 15 on the side of a rocky mountain. They did not pay him for the land, or help him when his family was hungry because he could not grow crops on the land.   Taha's father worked day and night to try to raise crops on the land that was left to him.  The Jews took over 3000 dunum of land from all the citizens of Dubbariya. All the cotton grown on the fields around Dubburiya does not belong to the citizens of Dubbariya, but to a kibbutz.   When the Jews took the land, Taha's father left the land and did not fight.  That is why he was allowed to stay on the rocky hillside.  Other Arabs fought the Jews and they were thrown out of Israel.  Whenever anyone talked of the land, Taha's father would cry.   Taha's father had 9 children and no income where once he was a successful farmer.

Arab Israeli
In some sense Taha is better off as a minority in Israel than as a majority in another Arab country. He does have some freedoms such as starting the engineering school.

Taha says Democracy is for the powerful and rich.  After 9/11, Taha said Democracy was harmed.  People were put in jail for 3-4-5 months without cause.  According to Taha, one Israeli journalist was jailed in the US.  His crime was taking pictures for an Israeli newspaper that the US government did not want him to take.

There is constant social conflict in Israel between the Jews, Muslims and Christians, although the conflict is almost always peaceful.  Taha believe only through education can we solve this problem.  In Science and education and culture, students of all the faiths work together.
Taha does not call himself a Palestinian because he no longer is a citizen of Palestine, he is a citizen of Israel.  It does not help anything to call himself a Palestinian.  He is an Arab Israeli.

Divorce
The divorce rate is under 5% among Arabs.  God does not love Divorce. No kidding. Why can't we get this straight?

Journal 4

Israeli Colleges, Arabic Opinions and Armageddon

Friday, July 23

Yesterday we spent the day going to colleges.  When we got back, I fell asleep about at about 6-7 PM and did not wake up until about 10 or so. I then got into conversation with college aged Mohammed and talked until about 4 AM.  I have spent the morning trying to get caught up on journaling and having pleasant conversations with Dina.  
Thursday’s events.


Breakfast
We had a very delicious breakfast.  (Insert!  Please remember in all culinary topics, Glenna speaks for herself.  I {Harry} do not always agree.)  We had pita bread, which we dipped in several things such as honey, grape jam, pinenut butter, a green herb called zaatar with olive oil, and Lebany, which is white and kind of sour.  We also had grapes and cucumber pickles, tomatoes and olives.   I had asked for milk but the others had tea.  They said hot tea for breakfast helps you to be cool.

Car Bombs and Safety
I asked about car bombs and the safety of our trip into Haifa.  I was told there have been no car bombs in Dabburiya and maybe one in Afula, and one in about three years in Haifa.  Also, the bomb in Afula was believed to be planted by the Russian Jews as part of organized crime’s attempt at a protection racket.  Of course, in the US press, any bomb must mean terrorists.   Last week, a judge was shot and killed in Tel-Aviv.  The motive for this crime is not clear, but it does not fit the normal pattern of the terrorists.  In any case, violent crime in Israel does not compare to the crime in America.

We passed by fields of sunflowers, cotton, melon, tomato and onion.  It is amazing how fertile this land is.  The land is so stony, it makes New England look like Iowa.

Megiddo/Armageddon
We stopped by Tel Megiddo National Park and the site of Megiddo Castle. It is known to us as through a corruption of language as Armageddon. People have lived here for 7000 years.  It has been destroyed 25 times. The final battle is predicted to be here in Revelations.  It is located in a highly strategic location, overlooking a very fertile plain that contains the only real road between Egypt and Mesopotamia.  It has had 17 holy structures in the same place, one on top of the other.  Among others, Solomon and Ahab built here.  It is almost impossible to grasp the great age of this place.

The Academic College for Education in Israel
Taha works in what used to be an Arabic school, but has changed its name and reputation to include everyone who wants to come.  They still teach classes in Arabic, so they have Muslim, Christian and Druze, but they do not yet have Jewish students because of the language issue.   They have teachers from all four faiths.  They had beautiful artwork everywhere.  There is calligraphy over the door saying "The source of sweet water is crowded"

We met with College President Najeeb Nabwani. who is Druze.  He had a sign on his wall in Arabic calligraphy that says, "Shoot for the moon. If you miss it, you will be among the stars."

We were presented with a children's book written by Dr. Nabwani entitled, The Little Judge.   It is the story of a child who had a wise solution to a theft that helped out a judge.  We were told that there is no drinking or drugs or even smoking in the college.  They estimated that only 2% of the students smoke, anyway.

We met many of the professors and ate lunch in the college cafeteria. Everyone was very cordial and friendly.  I gave peace cranes to all that I met from my students in West Boylston.  They were all thankful, and would sadly say that they wish for peace as well.

Shenkar College of Engineering and Design
We went to Shenkar College in Afula, where we met the Director of Science Education in Israel.  We had a very cordial visit with him and a tour of the college.    We talked of the possibility of exchanges between Israel and the United States.   We were given information on pursuing this. Shenkar College has very small classes, and tries to go beyond what a student would get elsewhere.  The multi-ethnic aspect of the school is very important.

Muhammad
As I mentioned, I spent from midnight until 4 AM talking about politics with Mohammed, Taha's college aged son.  It is fascinating to hear things from another viewpoint.  For instance, he asked if the US does not deserve some retribution for the bad things we have done?  Also, who is the terrorist?  Our country went to war with another country, killed its citizens and bombed and destroyed many buildings, all because they supposedly had weapons of mass destruction.   When these could not be found, we said, oh, we had bad information.  To Mohammad, it seems strange that the richest and most powerful country in the world could not get better information.

He spoke of the Jews and their treatment of the Palestinians.  He says if a Jewish person is killed, we hear about it all over the world.  Many Palestinians get killed, and it is not in the news nearly as much. He says the United States gives arms to Israel but does not help the Palestinians.   The Palestinians are poor and cannot defend themselves. They have had their land taken away.  They are huddled in camps. They cannot fight against tanks.  They try to fight because they have had their land stolen from them.  It is the most important thing they have. They love the land because it is a holy land and they refuse to give the land up.   They fought with their sons and brothers and sisters to keep this land from being stolen from them. They have also seen their mothers and brothers and children killed in front of them.  It is written in the Koran and the Bible that the Judgment Day will be here. Here the land is equal to honor.  If you lose your land, you lose your honor.

Again, according to Muhammed, a local mosque collected money for the Palestinians for school supplies.  The leaders of the mosque were arrested by the Israelis and put in jail because the Israelis said they took this money for themselves, and other charges just to keep them in jail.

There is a law in Israel that states that everyone must respect each others religion, but the Jews do not follow it. In Haifa, an old Mosque was taken over and made into a bar. As we know, Moslems do not drink.

To say this building conversion is offensive to the Arabs is an understatement.

Visits to an Arab Farm and Nazareth

Sunday Breakfast
We had a breakfast of a sweet bread that a neighbor bought in Jerusalem.  It was very good.  It was served with tuna fish, olives, cucumber and tomatoes.  We also were offered a cereal that is chocolate covered banana. The boys ate it with hot milk, and Yehya put sugar on it.   As I said before, the olives are very good.  They are grown on trees in the Massalha yard, and Dina picks them and prepares them.  We also had a mint flavored tea that is very good.

Dr. Farhan Saede
We went to the little village of Arabe, to a small farm owned by Dr. Farhan and Malika Saede.  Malika, the wife is originally from Morocco.  It was a little surreal to be greeted by an Arab woman in Israel with “Enchante!”  He has 20-30 sheep and goats.  He has honey bees, and many plants for the bees to get nectar.  We got to sample such fresh foods as figs, cherry tomatoes, facoose (a sweet cucumber), and prickly pear. They also grow zucchini, okra, zaatar, pomegranates, green plums, and eggplant.

There was a canal by the farm that carries water from Lake Tiberias to the Negev. It is used for irrigation and for cooling a nuclear power plant.  It goes through the land of many Arab farmers.  They are not allowed to use the water, and they only have two bridges in 20 kilometers (12 miles)   That is extremely inconvenient for a small farmer to get to both parts of his divided farm.  The roads in the Arab sectors are extremely narrow and poor and rocky.  Many have had to abandon the part on the other side of the canal.  In the Jewish sectors, there are good, wide, well-paved roads. There seems to be little or no effort by the government to keep up roads in the Arab towns.  The way that the Arabs seem to be treated reminds me of what I was taught about how blacks were treated in the US before Integration.

In Israel, there are many villages that have been around for thousands of years.  The Israeli has chosen not to "recognize" many of these Arab villages.  The official term for these villages is "unrecognized villages." The absurdity of recognizing something by giving it a name that says that you don’t recognize it is pretty obvious.  The residents of these villages have to have the name of a nearby village on their identification papers, and they have to send their children to another village to school.   The idea is that these towns do not get any tax support money from the Israeli government.

Dr. Saede told us that he tried to get electricity, which he should be able to get by law.  He paid a deposit, and the company was about to install it, but the Ministry of the Interior, said no and that was that.  Not only did he not get electricity, but he lost his deposit. Dr. Saede got around this problem by buying and running a generator.  It seems obvious that some members of the government do not want the Arabs to develop and own land.  One of the doctor's guests begged us to tell what is happening here and be their ambassador to the US.  I got to sit on the porch with the men as the women prepared the meal. We sat on foam cushions and discussed politics.  Gee, things are alike the world over.

We were treated with many sweets and fruits while we waited for supper to be prepared.  I was amused to see that they fired up a grill and our meat and onions and tomatoes were grilled on skewers by the men.  We had a wonderful meal with the Doctor and his wife.   As we were eating, his daughter and her three children arrived, followed by his son and his fiancée.  The Doctor's daughter, Amira, lives in the Netherlands with her Arabic husband.  She is completely fluent in four languages:  Arabic, Dutch, Hebrew, English and understands German.   Her English was excellent.

In school, the Arabic students take Arabic, Hebrew and English. We were told the World Health Organization had a slogan "Adding years to life."  Now, since 1990, they have the slogan "Adding life to years"

Nazareth
In Nazareth we visited a basilica called the Church of the Ascension, where Gabriel came to Mary to tell her she was pregnant.  There were many pieces of art work centered on Mary sent from all over the world.  They were exquisite. It was moving to go inside and kneel in a place where Mary lived and where Jesus walked.

Later, we went to a Greek Orthodox church which was built over Mary's well.  Although to outside of this church was not impressive, within, the art work was exquisite.  It was moving to drink water from Mary's well.

We had a wonderful meal at what Taha told us was the best Arabic restaurant in Nazareth.  We had many delicious Arabic dishes.  One looks like a hand grenade.  Taha told of a friend who came into someone's house and saw this food and ran outside saying "It's a bomb!” It had ground beef in it and was covered with something like a corn bread.  It was called Kubbih.  We also had falafel, which I liked to dip into various dishes.  There were three different dishes of eggplant, a staple in Israel.  We had beef strips on a plate, then tore up Syrian bread and dipped it into various things like humus, a hot relish and pickled vegetables.  We also had the obligatory olives and pickles.  It was a wonderful meal. After we were so full we could hardly move Taha took us to a sweet shop to eat a local delicacy called k’nafe.  (I used this spelling based on pronunciation.)

Jim's Question
Last evening, I asked Taha and his brother Muhammed if they were to follow the Koran perfectly, could they live in peace with the Jews. They immediately said "Of course!" There was peace for twelve centuries. There was only a problem because the Jews decided they "owned" Israel and proceeded to come here and take land without paying for it.  They were offered land in Africa but refused.  They wanted Israel.  Many Arabs were forced to leave the country, or go to the West Bank and Gaza strip which was given to them by the UN.  In the West Bank and Gaza strip (Palestine), the Arabs are in camps, kind of in limbo.   Most of the homes have been destroyed and they are very much restricted and watched by Israeli soldiers.  They have no army or weapons.  Some have been able to get some chemicals and make bombs, but mostly they only have rocks to fight with.   The Jews have taken over the rest of Israel and live free and often affluent lives.  The Palestinians only want a place to call home.

Muhammed's Children
I was invited inside to visit with Muhammed's wife and children.  It was good for me because they did not speak very good Engish, and I finally was forced to learn some Arabic.  It was fun trying to figure out what each was saying.  The children had English in school, but with little opportunity to use it, they were not good at speaking.  I went away with a wonder at the intelligence of the Massalha children.  Keep in mind English is their third language.

Journal 6

Conversations in a Watermelon Field, Haifa, and Druze Villages

I am having a very difficult time getting to journaling.  We are kept going from early morning to night (which I love) but it is @#%* hot! It takes a lot out of you when you are not used to it.  Now that I have that off my chest...

Sunday evening, young men and sweets
Sunday evening, we went with college age son Muhammed to the top of Tabor Mountain, which is beside Dubbiriya. It was beautiful to look at the sea of lights in the valley.  We also visited family members who were sitting by a field of watermelon and a large area of drying watermelon seeds, chatting and smoking a water pipe.  With many big smiles, Harry was offered a smoke and he refused. In a previous excursion with one of Taha’s nephews, Harry was offered a smoke on a water pipe, and accepted.  When in Rome. . .

Anyway, we met a lawyer, Zaid, cousin of Muhammed who went to school in Italy, and speaks Arabic, Hebrew, English, Italian and some German.  He apologized for his English but spoke very well.  His brother, Raed, was also there.  He is a truck driver.  We spoke of the wonderful land of Israel as well as the struggle of the Arabs in this land.  These young men are between 25 and 30, and very happy to meet Americans, and also anxious for us to get a good impression of Arabs. They invited us to go to the Golan Heights with them one day.  Suddenly, someone appeared with a box of Arabic confections.  They are wonderful!  If I can find some I will buy them and bring them home.  (He who visits first gets a taste!)

We were also told that in 1948 there were 400 Arab villages, but now there are only 96.  There are many unattended olive trees, as they now belong to local kibbutz, and Arabs are not allowed to come on the land. Not all kibbutz people are into production of olives.

Monday, Haifa and more
Haifa is a city on the Mediterranean Sea.  It is known for shipping. In 1948 it was mostly Arab and now it is mostly Jewish.  We went by a Mosque that is part church and part auto repair garage.  Some of the Mosques have been turned into museums, but one in Haifa has been turned into a bar. I was told one Mosque was used as a studio for porn films. These mosques were not abandoned or sold; they were taken.

We first went to the Ba'Hai Gardens.  Ba’hai is a religious group has a church and beautiful gardens in Haifa.  Ba'Hai members travel from all over the world to visit this site. We climbed many, many, many steps to get to view the gardens, because they are planted in a long vertical strip up the side of a very steep and substantial hill.  The gardens were beautiful.  Words cannot do it justice, so please check the web page for a picture.

We went to the Mt. Carmel Church called Stella Maris.  It is a church started by the Crusaders.  This is the home of the Carmelite Order of monks.  At the church, I lit a candle and prayed for blessings for the marriage of Emily and Clint Earns.  (We attended their wedding just before coming to Israel.)  We were told the first time you come to the church, your first prayer will be answered.

We then took a tram down the mountain.  It was a beautiful as it overlooked the shore of the Mediterranean Sea.  We then went to a seafood restaurant.  The fish was served with heads and tails like in Japan.  The interesting part was a guard at the door.  We had to be wanded, and have my purse examined.  We found at the end of the meal that we paid something like $4 each for the security guard.  We had the Arab Salad which we have come to expect.  It is Syrian bread with humus and other things to dip your bread in, and preceeds your entree. I had a fish called Denis.

I asked if there are any homeless.  I was told very few in Haifa, but none in Dubbariya.  

We then went to two Druze villages, Oasofia and Dalyat el Karmel. Actually, they are mixed villages of Christian, Muslim and Druze, but all Arab.  We had a great time in the shops and bought some wonderful hand woven wall hangings, table cloths and glass dishes.   We had some great conversations with people in the village and enjoyed looking around at the shops.  Harry looked at water pipes but cannot decide if he can take one home as part is usually glass.  We have a lot to pack already.

We asked Taha in the car about divorce among the Islam faith.  They are allowed to divorce but there are other avenues suggested before divorce, and it is a last choice.  It is very difficult financially and socially.

Journal 7

The Golan Heights

This entry will be a tag team effort by Glenna and me.  I can't even remember what day we went to the Golan Heights, but one recent day one of our host's sons and Glenna and I piled in the Toyota for a trip of discovery.  (Our hosts for this trip were Raed, a truck driver and Ziad, a lawyer.)   Get out your maps of Israel and follow along.

Our host lives fairly close to Nazareth.  From here, we went to where the Jordan River flows out of the Sea of Galilee. As an aside, it is striking how few tourists there are ANYWHERE in Israel.  At the site that tourists go to for baptisms at the Jordan, we were literally the only people!   The gift shop was almost deserted and no-one was at the river itself. We continued South of the Sea of Galilee and on to the east until we got to the Syrian border, and then headed north.  During much of this section of the trip we were within anywhere from a mile to a hundred feet of the border.   The border itself is very obvious with lines of razor wire, a cleared zone on both sides of the wire and many warning signs.  Sometimes in the distance we saw military installations for observation and radar.

At one point, we stopped for lunch in a village that is composed almost exclusively of Druze people.  The Druze are ethnic Arabs.  They consider their religion a kind of Islam.  The girls are spectacularly beautiful, and it was obvious that the guys with us enjoyed the scenery. After buying some gifts and a delicious lunch, we moved on through the eastern part of the Golan.

There are VERY few people living here.  We were told that when the Jews took over the Golan, they kicked out almost all of the inhabitants, or they fled the violence.  There are many places that show regular and orderly piles of rocks (demolished houses), groves of olive trees and prickly pear cactus, (a sure sign that Arabs lived there) but no people.   The visual scenery is spectacular, with a steady climb in elevation.  Always in the distance is Mt Herman, which dominates all of the Golan.  It is tall enough that it is snow covered all winter, and into the summer months.

The guys next took us to what we guessed was a preserved fortified spot, high up in the hills.  This is a site used by the Israelis in previous conflicts.  From this point, you could see for many miles in any directions.  This was a poignant moment in several ways.

  1.  The Israelis obviously thought that this was an important point, because they had turned it into a park, complete with restrooms and a substantial restaurant.  Both the restrooms and the restaurant were closed, and we were one of only two parties there.
  2. This area of the Golan is famous for apples.  There is something very wrong about a military strong point in the middle of apple orchards.

After this brief visit, we went to Nimrod's Fortress/Castle, currently an Israeli National Park.  This is a very impressive site, located on the top of a hill that is surrounded by cliffs on three sides, and a very steep hillside on the fourth. This fortress was built in 1227 by Muslims to protect a major route from the Crusaders and internal intriguers between Damascus and anywhere to the south and west.   Considering its age and the number of times it has been attacked, it is in remarkable condition.

We then continued further north toward the Lebanon border.  We actually entered a village that is half in Israeli occupied Golan, and half in Lebanon.  We were within about 10 FEET of the border.  To get into the village, we had to stop at a checkpoint and leave our passports, which were returned when we left. (You can read some anxiety into this from Glenna.)

We also stopped at Kurst National Park, which is the site of the miracle of the swine from the Bible.  It is also the site of a recently unearthed Byzantine Monastery.  It was fascinating to look at what was left of this ancient structure.  They believe this structure was built in the fifth century.   To view such ancient structures is amazing.

We passed by the Mount of the Beatitudes, but the church was closed. We then went on to the city of Tiberias.  We spent some time walking by waterfront shops and restaurants.  We then went into the town, now after dark and stopped by an old Mosque in great disrepair, in the middle of modern buildings and a shopping area.   We were shown this Mosque and told that the Arabs collected money to fix up the Mosque, but were given a lot of red tape and finally were not given permission to work on the building.  In the meantime, vandals did further damage to the once beautiful and sacred building.   It was heartbreaking to see such a beautiful building fall into disrepair.  I (Glenna) wanted to organize a sit-in or something to bring attention to such things. Again, we were told that this is not the worst of it, they told us what we had heard before, that Mosques have been used for bars and worse.   There are laws on the books in Israel that each must respect the religion of the other but some inspectors do not always follow this law.


Journal 8

Home Again

Israel and the USA

Harry and I arrived home safely Wednesday.  After sleeping, unpacking and repacking and some fitful sleep, I am off to Maryland to attend a Women of Faith Conference with my sister Ellen.

When I return, I will finish the journals for the last fun-filled, hectic days in Israel, and finally post pictures to the website.
Our experience was wonderful.  I hope each of you get the opportunity to visit Israel one day and enjoy the hospitality of the people and the wonder of visiting holy sites.

Journal 9

A Busy Day

Jisr Az Zarqa

We visited the village of Jisr Az Zarqa.  It is a small town of about 18,000 people north of Tel Aviv.  This village is the only one in Israel that is both all Arab and on the Mediterranean Sea.  It is on prime real estate on the Mediterranean Sea, but it is among the poorest villages in Israel.  They have severe problems with unemployment, and consequently with alcohol and drugs.  This village is made up of people who were brought here long ago from Egypt and Jordan.  The two groups do not get along, and there is not a sense of community.  The villagers have a poor sense of self worth.  We met with Mohammed Naamneh, the director of the Community Center.  He is a very impressive man, with impeccable English and boundless energy.  We first met him at Dr. Saede’s farm.  He helps bring in food, like our Food Share, and plans summer activities for the children.  He is not a resident of Jesr El Zarka, and hopes to one day work himself out of a job by encouraging someone from the village to take over his job.  The day we visited, the town had been unable to pay for the water, and the water got shut off for the whole town.

The last mayor tried to get the townspeople to work on turning the village into a tourist attraction, but to no avail.  It was a discouraging story.  Mohammed said he would like to have a project between the school there and an American school.  I suggested that we could work on putting together school supply bags for the children but he liked the idea of a project better.  I think perhaps exchanging art work between our elementary school and theirs would be fun.  We will see.

Shenkar University

At Shenkar College of Engineering and Design, we met Dr. Gavin Suss, Head of Academic Administration.  He surprised us with a British accent and said he is from South Africa.  Shenkar College is unique in that it has a school of fashion and jewelry design as well as an engineering department.  Mohammed Massalha, our host’s son is a student in the Plastics Engineering department.

We were given a tour of the facility starting with a magnificent machine.  It is a computer printer.  However, this is not a normal printer.  It actually prints out working models in solid, three dimensions!  It works by printing out the design model in thin, thin layers.  One example we saw was a wrench.  It was designed on the computer, and came out as a plastic wrench, complete with moving parts.  You could turn the screw part and the jaws moved.  They also had a rook (Castle) from a chess set with a winding stair case inside the piece.  The most fascinating and hardest to describe was a model which had many gears that all worked.  This will make engineering a much faster process, because the expense of making a prototype model is greatly reduced.

They had other wonderful machines that produced 3-D models as well.  One made jewelry in wax with more detail than could be made by hand.  A mold is made over the design and then jewelry with incredible detail can be made.

We were fortunate to be able to view a wonderful display of student projects including jewelry, fashion and design inventions.  The inventions were great.  They included a “hug chair” for autistic children, a portable kitchen on wheels, and a clothes line with little clingy rings on it that made clothes pins unnecessary.  We had a great time visiting this school, and visiting with Dr. Suss.

Jerusalem and the Ministry of Education

We then traveled to Jerusalem to the Ministry of Education.  We met with David Sela who is the National Inspector for Physics.  Yup, we were among the big wigs!  He invited Massa (Middle School Science) and Rachel (Chemistry) to join us.  We had a wonderful time discussing science curriculum.  Massa showed me the 7th grade text which is recommended by the country.  Everyone in the whole country studies the same thing the same year using the same curriculum.  Students purchase their own books, so teachers are asked to keep a text the same for at least five years.  Teachers are allowed to deviate from the text, but must cover all material covered by the text.  They have recently added engineering to their curriculum, and they are having the same struggles getting teachers to cover the new curriculum that we have in the US.

To clarify, the whole country of Israel has close to the same land mass and population of Massachusetts, so it is not like Japan as far as everyone using the same curriculum.  They have an added problem that we do not have in the US.  Most of their schools teach in Hebrew for the Jewish students, and the rest of the schools teach in Arabic for the Arab Christian, Muslim and Druze students.  This means they have to print the text books in both Arabic and Hebrew.  I suppose it is somewhat like the ESL classes.  They have the tests in Israel like we have here to give teachers incentive to teach the complete curriculum.  I mentioned the National Science Teacher Association Convention in Dallas, Texas, Spring 2005, and Massa expressed a desire to attend.  It would be great if she can come.

I described my Data Collection and Graphing Project that I do with my students.  I showed a culminating PowerPoint presentation designed by students this past year.  Massa described a science fair-type event that they have in her school which is done mostly in school to avoid the parent “help” that seems to be a given all over the world for science fairs.  It sounded very interesting.  I hope to see the final projects some day.

David, Massa and Rachel were all Jews.  I mentioned how much I was enjoying staying with Arabs and learning about their culture.  I also mentioned that I was pleasantly surprised how well their women were treated, including encouragement in higher education.  Rachel said she did not think this was very widespread.  I asked how they felt about the Arabs still living in refugee camps in the West Bank.  Massa said she did not think they were living in refugee camps.  They live in villages like any other part of Israel.  She said hoped everyone could find a way to go on and leave the past behind.  I told Massa how impressed I am with Taha, and she said she knew quite a few Arabs and was looking forward to getting to know Taha.  She said she was giving a teacher workshop in a Druze village the next day, and had decided not to charge anything for her workshop.

Judean Desert

When we left Jerusalem, we decided to go up along the East side of the West Bank, following the Jordanian border.  We went south of Jericho and then headed north, away from the Dead Sea.  We could not visit Jericho, as it is part of the occupied West Bank and not at all safe for Americans.  We could not visit the Dead Sea at the northern end because it had barbed wire because it is the border between Israel and Jordan.  This part of our trip brought us through the Judean Desert.  We saw barren hills, and Bedouin with their tents, sheep, camels.  It was beautiful, driving along in an air conditioned car, but I cannot imagine living there in a house, let alone a tent.  I am told there are Bedouins who live in the towns now.  In fact, I believe there are Bedouins living in Dubbariya.

As we traveled north between the West Bank and Jordan, we passed through a check point, manned by Israeli soldiers, but we were told we were ok because we had Israel license plates, rather than Palestinian plates.  As we traveled north, the land went from desert to just barren with a little scrub.  Then we got to rows of date palms, banana trees, grapes vines and even fish farms.  These were sometimes owned by Arabs but the large ones were owned by a Kibbutz.

We went by a prison that we were told holds over 8000 Palestinians.

We saw a sunset on our way home.  What a day!

Bride’s Party

Oh, you thought the day would end here with a nice dinner and rest from a long day. . .  Wrong!

After we got home, Dina was waiting for me to change and go to a Bride’s party.  How could you say no to a traditional Arabic Bride’s party?  We could hear music from blocks away.  We walked the few blocks to where there were streets blocked off.  We were ushered to a table and given heaping plates of a rice and chicken dish.  There is a white sauce that is put it over the rice and chicken dish.  Delicious!  There was other food, but I particularly enjoyed that sauce.

We then went over to another area where a couple hundred ladies were all sitting in rows of lawn chairs.  By the way, plastic lawn chairs are all the rage in Arab Israel.  We sat in them in kitchens (they stack easily), on farms and at parties.  Anyway, the women were together and there were a few men and boys, including a couple of Taha’s sons, but the women sat together.  Up the street, there was what we would call a band stand constructed of wood in the middle of the street.  There was a band playing and a beautiful woman in a bright, floor length ball gown was on the stage.  This was the bride.  Friends and family were lined up to get their picture taken with her.  After a while, there was a commotion at the other end of the street.  It was the arrival of the family of the groom.  They carried him down the street on their shoulders to the bride.  He got her from the stage and danced with her in the street.  They were surrounded by friends and family who were also dancing.  Not as couples, just dancing around them.  After a bit of dancing and such, the groom and his family left.

The party continued.  They brought around the dark Arabic coffee and sweets much like baklava.  As I have said, I loved their sweets.  There was also soda available.  All of this was served by young men that I believe were cousins or brothers.  The party was going on and on, and I got very tired.  I was told at midnight they would have passed out little packets of henna, a reddish dye. I will have to check with Dina, but there is something about putting henna in the palm of your hand and writing something in it to give you good luck.  I could not take notes in the dark of the wedding.  We arrived back home (yes, we felt like it was home) and I fell into a deep sleep.

Harry passed on the Bride’s party but went to the groom’s party the next night.  I guess the bride does not come and there is dancing and such with more men.  I did not ask if there were women there or not.  Wedding celebrations can last for three or four days.  There are a lot in the summer as there are here.  Taha, as a highly respected college professor, and having eight brothers and sisters with many nieces and nephews, attends to dozens of wedding in a summer.

Journal 10

Nazareth, Again

Dina’s brother, graciously agreed to take us around Nazareth in more depth than we had with Taha before.  Dina and her family were born and brought up in Nazareth, and wanted to give us the grand tour.  How fortunate we were!  Dina’s brother had a VW van that could squeeze through the tiniest places.  It was amazing.  Also, the streets of Nazareth reminded me of San Francisco, except in San Francisco they are nice, wide streets.  In Nazareth, they are very steep, very winding and very narrow, sometimes not much more than a car width.  After all, the streets and houses are very old.

We were first taken to the synagogue where Jesus read scriptures.  It was closed, as were many of the churches we visited.  You see, there are few tourists in Israel right now so the churches (which are built on every little place they think anything happened with Jesus) have limited hours.  It turned out that Dina’s brother knows the priest who is in charge of the synagogue, now owned by the Catholic Church, and he got him to open the synagogue for us.  They waited respectfully while we sat and tried to get our brains around the idea of Jesus actually being in this place.  We took pictures and rejoined Dina’s brother and the priest.

We then went into the Byzantine Catholic Church next to the synagogue.  We asked about this and were told that the Byzantine Catholics are Arabs who were converted to Christianity by the Crusaders.  I asked if they thought the Christians and Muslims could live in peace if they followed the Koran/Bible.  They said both the Koran and the Bible teach that we should love our brother, and they both told us that they are Arab brothers, worshiping the same God.  That was a powerful moment for me.  I asked the priest if he felt there could be peace in Israel.  I was much surprised that the priest told me that the Bible says to love one another, but for me not to live in a Fantasy World and not to take fantasy back to my students.  He strongly said that though we must love each other and work to respect each other as it says in the Bible, there could not be peace in Israel.  He is the only one in Israel that said this to me.

We went on to Mary’s Well.  I believe the church here is an Orthodox church.  The inside was very ornate with many, many paintings.  In fact it seemed that every surface had paintings on them. 

Dina’s brother would teach us things as we walked sometimes.  For instance, he taught us that man comes from dust or dirt (dust to dust) and Satan is born of fire.  If you are angry, wash to make Satan go far, as he does not like water.  When Muslims pray, they wash themselves first.  Jews greet you with “Shalom,” which means “peace.”  The Arabs say “Salem” pronounce “salaam”.  It means God.  We were told that you cannot make peace without God.

The name Abdella, one of the sons of Dina’s brother, means Slave of God.

An imam is a preacher for a Muslim parish.  He can get married and have children as our Protestant ministers or Orthodox priests can.  He takes care of the Mosque and delivers the call to prayer over a loud speaker system five times a day that goes all over the village.  We also sometimes heard a whole sermon delivered over the loud speaker system that is attached to the minaret, a tall tower attached to the Mosque.  They used to stand on this spire to call to worship, but now the call is electronic.

Dina’s brother is a devout Muslim.  He dresses in a long tunic style garb with long sleeves and a skirt that reaches his ankles.  It was a more fitted garment, not robes.  He wears sandals as everyone in Israel does.  He also wore a crocheted cap on his head not unlike a Jewish yarmulke.   He would not look me directly in the eye at first, and would not shake my hand.  In fact, when his son shook my hand, he reprimanded him and explained to me that a Muslim man must not shake a woman’s hand other than a mother or sister, and he gave me a list of permissible women.  The wife we met was all covered, except her face.  He has three wives and seven children.  We only met his first wife and her four children.  He seemed like a pleasant man who was very kind to me, however very strict.  He owns a store, which his first wife attended that day.  Except for Dina’s brother, all the other Arab men shook my hand.  His daughter who was, perhaps 10 – 12 wore a head covering and long dress but her little sister who was perhaps 8 did not.    The boys run around in shorts and tank tops.  This was true of Taha’s boys as well.

We went to the White Mosque in Nazareth.  Dina’s brother’s older son, Abdella wanted to show me around.  I asked if I could go into the men’s prayer rug strewn place to take pictures and Dina’s brother said yes.  I was surprised but took my shoes off and went into that area to take pictures.  I asked Abdellah a question and he went over to show me a Koran.  A man came into the church and started to shout at Abdellah.  It seems he touched a Koran without first washing his hands.  I did not know what was going on, so I beat a speedy retreat.  When I did, I noticed a sign in Arabic and English on a door leading to the women’s worship area.  The man who seemed to be overseeing the mosque that day, came to my rescue and tried to calm the waters.  He spoke strongly to our disapproving man and went to get us postcards of the Mosque and brought out a huge book that he asked us to sign.  It was obvious he was trying to make a favorable impression after the earlier unpleasantness.  I let Harry sign for both of us, though he seemed to be indicating that I could have signed as well.  It is the only mosque we got a chance to enter and I was glad we had that opportunity.

We then went to many beautiful churches.  We went to a lovely chapel in a French Hospital.  We went to another church on top of a hill overlooking the city.  I was disconcerted to find that they have built a hotel and restaurant so couples can come and stay in the hotel, get married in the chapel and have the reception in the restaurant and courtyard.  Alas, this place, too, was nearly empty. 

We were taken around for hours, sometimes in the van, sometimes we did a bit of walking but always one of the boys accompanied us with a cell phone.  They would alert their Dad when we needed to be picked up and the van would appear.  We had a marvelous day and were treated with utmost respect and consideration.

As we were climbing yet another hill in the van, Dina’s brother got yet another phone call and we were whisked off to his home where we found Taha waiting for us.  We were told we had a dinner engagement with a former student of Taha’s in a nearby village.  We were dirty and sweaty but off we went.

I now understood the foot washing and such in the Bible.  I needed a complete shower to visit in someone’s house, not to mention the straw hat I wore to protect my face from the sun.  Since it was well over 90 degrees every day, and since we had done much hiking  and much sweating, I had an impossible hat head and decided to leave that ridiculous hat on my head the whole time I was at our hosts’ house for dinner.

Riad in Em-Mahel

We arrived at the home of Raid and Sameh Habib in Em-Mahel.  We were greeted by a lovely, air-conditioned, beautiful, spacious home that was tastefully decorated.  I understood the word oasis at that point.  Sameh had prepared a spectacular Arab meal.  Even Harry, who is a picky eater, found much to love about the meal.

Raid said of Taha, “I am what I am because of this man.”  This was true where ever we went.  Everyone loves and respects Taha.  He has taught and mentored many, many young people in the Arab sector, but had many Druze, Christian and Jewish friends as well.  Where ever we went there were smiles and hearty handshakes when people saw Taha.

After dinner I commented on how beautiful their house was decorated.  I told them I was trying to find a place to buy handcrafts and having a hard time.  I noted that they seemed to have many handcrafted pieces and wondered if they had a suggestion of a place to buy some.  Raid took me around the house describing their decorations to me.  When he came to an Egyptian weaving on his wall, he took it off his wall and gave it to me.  I protested, but he said he was going to Egypt next week and could buy his wife another.  Such generosity!

We (the men and I) went up on Raid’s roof to sit on plastic lawn chairs and watch the sunset.  There was playful talk of it being a Dubbariya moon as we sat and watched it rise over Mt. Tabor and Dubbariya.  Raid pointed out that his town had owned over 40,000 dunams of land in 1948 and it had been taken away by the Jews and they now own only 4,000 dunam.  Below his home stretched beautiful olive groves and other green, productive farmland.  I asked what the Arabs of his village do now for work.  Some work in the olive trees but now mostly they work in construction, industry and other “black work”.  This is like saying blue collar work.

Raid told me of a poem about colors.  White is for pure heart and deeds.  Black is for war.  Green is for where you live.  Red is for knights.  I had given him an origami peace crane.  (We gave them out to everyone we met and they were all very happy to receive a symbol of peace from us.) The crane I happened to select for Raid was white, black, green and red.  He was touched.  Taha mentioned that I had given the same crane to Massa in Jerusalem the day before with the Arab colors.  She certainly did not say anything if she had noticed but it gave me pleasure to have given one to both an Arab and  a Jew.

After we talked politics, bantered and laughed, Raid asked if we would like to meet his two mothers.  He said it to watch the look on our faces.  Since we had met Dina’s brother, it was not the strong effect he had expected.  It seems his father and other mother tried to have children for eleven years.  When it became apparent that this was just not going to happen, they decided to take another wife.  She helped him with the search and he married another woman.  Raid says his natural mother had one child and then could have no more.  They tell him that he is all they needed.  So Raid had two mothers.  He says they both loved him and worked together to raise him and got along very well.  They all chose to live in the same house.  He said both mothers urged him to love and respect the other as much as themselves.  It was obvious he loved both mothers very, very much.  I mentioned that this meant he had four grandmothers.  He said no, one of his grandfathers had two wives so he had five grandmothers.  I hesitated and then said, “I bet you were spoiled.”  He allowed as how he was very spoiled by everyone.

We arrived at their home during a power outage which they said is not all that unusual in the Arab villages.  Anyway, we met the two mothers and a father who seemed to be a very happy man.  We had the Arab coffee, fruit and yes, sweets.  We had a pleasant time, and at one point I was informed that Harry was being invited to spend some time with Riad’s Dad so he could be taught how to look for another wife.  Taha was invited as well.  I had learned that “La” meant “no,” so I smiled and said “La, la, la!”  It was all meant in fun.

It was well after dark when we returned home to Dubbariya.  I was beyond exhausted and went to bed but Taha took Harry off to the Groom’s party that went with the Bride’s party that I had attended the evening before.  Now I think you can see why we had a hard time getting to journals during this part of our trip.  We had long, wonderful, hot, exhausting days.

Journal 11

Wedding and Handcrafts

The Wedding

Taha went off to the college, but we stayed home for a much needed rest.  We spent time with Esmaeel digging up our rusty French and Spanish, and Harry even came up with a little Vietnamese.  No, no army words!  Esmaeel is fun to talk and joke with.  He is constantly plying us with fruit and other food and drink.

Dina dug deep into her closets and brought out hand work that she had done or relatives work as well.  I was thrilled.  It turns out she and her mom did many of the hand work projects my sisters and I have done.  She showed me crochet, counted cross stitch, and even tatting, something I did years ago and taught to my sister who still does it.  She showed me sweaters that she knit for her children, much like the one my mother-in-law knitted for my sons.  She showed me embroidered pillow shams, and dresses.  She brought out lace edged head coverings that had crocheted and tatted lace much like my sisters and I put on handkerchiefs and pillow cases.  She knew I was not as interested in cooking so she spent some time with Harry showing him herbs and giving him the names and their uses.  He was very patient and good through this.  We did not tell her that his cooking does not include using herbs carefully picked and dried.

Mohammed shared his music with me.  We were amused to hear occasional tunes from our classic rock days with Arabic words or sometimes in English.  Ayoub told me a bit about his trip to France the week before.  He belongs to an Arab youth for peace movement.  He gave me a booklet in English about the group.  I plan to read it when I can and hopefully set up an exchange with young people between West Boylston or Sturbridge and Dubbariya.  That would be terrific.  We had a wonderful day.  We felt as much at home in Dubbariya as we do in Brookfield or Sturbridge.   We certainly felt like family.

In the evening, we prepared for a wedding reception that is about an hour away.  When we arrived, we were told that this was a traditional wedding, and the women would be separated from the men.  Dina steered me to the women’s area, and again we were plied with much wonderful food.  Rice and chicken and olives and pickles was the standard fare, along with many other dishes.  The drink was mostly water and a selection of sodas.  There were over 3000 guests to this wedding reception!  After we ate our meal, we went to a table of sweets and loaded up a plate and got the obligatory Arab Coffee. Arab coffee is about 2 cups of water with 5 really heaping teaspoons of coffee boiled vigorously with cardamom and drunk very hot.  Well, wedding coffee is prepared with great care - for a week!  It is boiled for an hour or so each day.  It was so strong..... oh my goodness!!

After a quick sip of wedding coffee and a thorough consumption of the sweets on my plate, Dina took me to meet the bride.  The women were on an area overlooking what looked like a large parking lot full of men.  Again we sat in lawn chairs, except the bride was in an over stuffed chair.  She was gorgeous in a beautiful white wedding gown.  She had a private wedding ceremony earlier in her parent’s home, and this public part was as a spectator of the men.  When I talked to her, she told me in terrific English that she has studied in the states and traveled quite extensively.  She had had a “Fashion Show” wedding the day before and this wedding was the wish of her husband, and she had agreed.

Below us, the men lined up, and danced around in a huge circle, waving their hands.  There was what I thought was music, but it turns out it was poetry being read.  At the end, the groom came up to get his bride and take her “to heaven”.

Stained Glass

The next day, Saturday, we had more rest.  Something had been planned that did not work out.  We started to try to pack our many gifts and souvenirs and worked on email and downloading photos.  We wanted to leave copies of our 1000 or more photos with Taha and his family.  I spent the day in a dress that Dina gave me.  It is what I would call a house dress and reminded me of an ankle length Muumuu that we used to wear in the 70’s.  Dina was very generous.  She gave me this dress, a set of coffee cups with cute Arabic saucers.  They are tiny, like our little tea cups (who could drink very much of their extremely strong coffee?)  She gave me embroidered pillow shams and a light nightie that her mom had bought for her form Mecca.  She gave me some oil based perfume, again from Mecca.  I had to be careful because if I admired something, she gave it to me.  I admired her sons and they are going to send him to visit in September!

In the evening, I spent some time with Taha sharing science activities.  Suddenly, Mohammed invited us to go off to see stained glass that the father of his friend makes.  I had said I wanted to see hand-made items.  Well, were we in for a treat!

Jameel Massalha, a cousin of Taha, makes marvelous stained glass.  We then were asked to go up on his roof after the obligatory coffee; Jameel made us a cup of cappuccino.  He has spent a lot of time in Italy selling his glass, so he thought we would enjoy this.  We also were given a wonderful sweet (desert) that his wife made with jam in the middle.  It was heavenly, like all the rest of the sweets.  We were joined by Mohammed and two of his friends.  One is studying to be a doctor and had perfect English.  He said he is top of his class in English.  It was a relief to talk to someone that you did not have to work so hard to understand and not have to keep repeating and trying to find words that they could understand.  We had good lessons in simplifying our speech.

Anyway, we talked of the economy, and stained glass and frankly, I do not remember so much the content of the conversation as I do the warmth of the friendly Arab people as they just brought us into their home and treated us like close friends.  I loved sitting on the roof tops watching the sun set and that evening we were even blessed with a bright green shooting star.

Jameel had some wonderful stained glass in his home, his shop and later we saw it in other homes in the village as well as a hotel a few days later that we were told was his work.  He would like to break into the American market.  I would think his work would be very popular here if he could find a way to get it marketed.  We got a phone call while we were there that we were leaving at 6 AM to go to Jerusalem with Dina and her brother.  We hurried home to try to catch a few winks of sleep, as it was nearing midnight.

Journal 12

Jerusalem

We left early Sunday morning for Jerusalem with Dina, and her youngest son, Yehya, her brother Mazen and his son Easa.  As we started out, Dina and Mazen were chanting/singing something.  It turns out they were praying for good travels.  It reminded me of my Dad starting every trip with a prayer.  There was a lot about Mazen that reminded me of my Dad.

We went down the East side of Israel between the West Bank and Jordan.  Before we got to the border, Dina and her brother pointed out the land that their family used to own before the 1948 war.  When the land was taken from their family, they moved to Nazareth. 

We were told that if the palm does not produce fruit, it is a sign of the beginning of the end times.  Also, no water in the Sea of Galilee (Lake Tiberius) is another sign. 

Again, we went by the check point with no problem.  The whole time we were driving, Mazen had a tape playing with a  singing/chanting of the Koran.

We stopped for a rest at a mosque along the road out in the middle of nowhere.  We sat and had a soda while Mazen went in to pray.  We had dates off a tree in the yard but when he came out he said they were not ripe.  Oh well.  The boys gave them to us.  May I say these boys, who are both about 13 would be separated if they were in my class.  They got along too well.   At one point we heard a brief squawk over the PA system that was in the minaret of the Mosque.  Mazen ran into the Mosque, soon to return with the boys behind him.  A man from nearby appeared, and I did not have to know Arabic to know he was assured it would not happen again, and the ensuing lecture to Easa and Yehya was thorough.  Before we left, a couple of boys from a nearby house posed by a donkey for me before.

We went through the Judean Desert again.  This time we did not have air conditioning, and I knew I was not cut out for desert life.  We went by Jericho again.  Imagine a city that has been continuously settled for 12,000 years!  We could see it off in the distance.  We saw a long line at the border to cross over into Jordan and then on to Saudi Arabia and Mecca.  Mazen drove down by the Dead Sea and let me get out and take pictures.  It was beautiful, in spite of the barbed wire fence.

It was explained that in Jerusalem is the Mosque Oksa.  You wash hands, face, arms and legs before praying.  You must only pray in clean places.  You pray five times a day.  Gabrielle had said 15 but Mohammed said that was too much, especially for farmers so Mohammed said 5 times.  In the eyes of Muslims, Mohammed is not viewed as God.  He was a prophet like Jesus was a prophet.  So when you come to Oksa, your prayers count 100 times as much as at home.  In Mecca in Saudi Arabia, your prayers are worth 1000 home prayers. 

Our first stop in Jerusalem was at the top of the Mount of Olives.  Times are hard in Jerusalem and we got swarmed by men selling books, pictures next to a camel, panoramic pictures of Jerusalem and offering to be a paid guide for the day.  Now if you could say “No,” and walk away I would not have minded, but they pestered us the whole time we were there.

The man with the panoramic pictures of Jerusalem, tried to sell Harry eight copies for family and friends back home.  Harry kept saying only one.  It took the longest time to get one out of him.  Then as I moved to another area to get a better photo, I was followed by the guy that wanted to be a guide.  As I stood there, he told me about what I was looking at.  Even though it might have been nice to have had a guide who could speak English, it was ridiculous to think we would take a stranger into the car and into Jerusalem for the day.  I wonder if people actually do that.  Well, even though the little monolog on Jerusalem was unsolicited, when he was done and offered a beautiful book of the Holy Land, I bought it.

Now, there are no set prices and they try to get what they can out of tourists.  I paid what he asked which I am sure was twice or more as what it was worth.  It was very tiring for me.  One thing that was offered to us, Easa said was half that in Nazareth.  Oh, well.  Easa and Yehya did not stay with us in Jerusalem, as they had in Nazareth and Mazen’s English was quite limited,so we were on our own for dickering.

After the Mount of Olives, we went to the Garden of Gethsemane.  There are eight trees here which are believed to be at least 2000 years old.  We went into the church and there was a rock that was said to be where Jesus prayed before he was taken away.  I knelt and prayed for many family and friends.  It was a moving experience.  We went out in the garden and after saying “konichiwa” to a couple of Japanese nuns; we talked to a monk who said he was placed there over fifty years ago.  He did not seem pleased.  He did allow me to get my picture taken with him.  When my Dad went to the garden there were little hedges along the paths.  Now there is a little rock wall.  He said in his notes that there was an order of nuns attending the trees.  The garden looked ok but maybe the nuns are not in charge any more.

After the Garden, we went into the city.  We spent some time at Bethesda.  It is just inside the wall of Old Jerusalem.  Long story short, it is a huge archeological dig.  It was the site of temples and baths and even a Crusader monastery.  It is very hard for American minds to grasp the idea that we were looking at sites that are anywhere from 800 to 3000 years old.  In our town, our house is considered old, and it is only 180!  The Crusaders sure left their mark all over.  Jesus met and healed a paralytic here.  Parts of this dig are thought to be 3rd century BC and possibly earlier.

We went into the old city by foot.  It is a maze of narrow alleys filled with people and wares of venders.  The way is so narrow a single car could get down them, but no cars can go there because of the people and venders.  Mazen led us across the city to see the Wailing Wall.  We looked from a stone bridge area.  He then took us to the Church of the Holy Sepulcher.  He left us there so he could go pray.  It is actually about five churches.  It is part of the Stations of the Cross.  When we got inside, a man offered to be our guide, and we said yes, as we had nothing to help us know what we were seeing.  He took us to the stone where Jesus was prepared for burial, to his tomb, (not the garden tomb, another one.  There are multiples of things in the holy land depending on the church) and to Golgotha where Jesus was hung on the cross.  We went from church to church, all connected.  It was beautiful and dark and old.  He told us that this was only part of the Stations of the Cross.  I had a hard time following all of it, as we went in and out of all these churches that were like a maze.  I am better if I have something on paper to see what is happening.

Harry, with his font of knowledge, recognized the man’s name as part of a family who has been given the task of overseeing the church.  You will have to ask Harry more about this.  When we were done, we spent a few minutes in a gift shop by the gate of the church until Mazen picked us up.  Across the city we went, again.

Did I mention it was extremely hot?  Before I went into the church, I got faint and Harry had to park me on some stairs and go get me some water and some sweets to help me feel better.  It is, thankfully, the only time that I was in Israel that I did not feel well. I usually really mind the heat.  Other than this day, the heat was more of an inconvenience of swimming in perspiration.  No headaches or anything until Jerusalem.  Anyway, we went across the old city through the streets of shops to the Wailing Wall again.  Mazen instructed us to go through a checkpoint (a place he could not, or at least would, not go) with and automatic rifles to the Wailing Wall.  We spent some time there and I found that there was a women’s section and a men’s section (I started to go with Harry into the wrong section and was helped out with my error by attendants).  I did not go up to the Wall because it appeared that people were following some traditions and walking backward as they left the wall.  Without a guide I did not want to make a spectacle of myself again after starting to go to into the men’s side, so I just stood a bit and watched the women.

We then went to a walkway that led us from the Wailing Wall to the Aksa Mosque.  Again we met up with soldiers with automatic rifles and a metal detector.  I had been instructed to buy a head covering by Mazen and proceeded to take off my straw hat and put on the head covering as the man in the shop had instructed me.  The guards told me I did not have to cover my head in the Mosque area.  I told them I was doing it out of respect.  We went through and came out into an area like a park.  Mazen was there and pointed out a young man and said he would be our guide for the two mosques.  One Mosque is Aksa, the men’s mosque, and the other, the Dome of the Rock, is the women’s mosque.

The young man told us a little about Aksa, but said we could not go in as they did not allow non-Muslims inside since Sharon surrounded it and kept the worshippers from leaving.  Just then two American-looking women walked out of the mosque.  Hmm.  Were we being had?  We went over to the Dome of the Rock, one of the most beautiful buildings I have seen.  As we neared, it our guide waved a friend over to sell us post cards of the mosques for a very high price.  I paid it.  Then as we were nearing the Mosque, our guide said, “Oh they are closing this area, we could not go into the Dome of the Rock.”  We looked around and there were guards with automatic rifles everywhere.  Now were we to believe this guide did not know they were about to close?  Anyway, as we walked toward the gate, Harry offered him about $10 or so in shekels for his time.  He got angry, and Harry offered him about $20 to get rid of him.  Again he got angry and said the price was $20 each!  So with guards closing in on us, and not wanting to make a scene, we gave him $40 worth of shekels for less than ten minutes of talking.  We’d been had, again.

We started across the park area toward Mazen, and our guide deserted us even though we told him we needed to meet Mazen.  The guards closed in on us and tried to usher us to the gate in the other direction.  I insisted we had to meet Mazen, because if we got ushered out that other gate, he would not know where we were and we would be alone in Jerusalem with no way of finding him.  So with a stony-faced guard at our heels, we marched doggedly toward Mazen.  He finally saw us and got up and came toward us.  He was calm and cheery as always as we were escorted to an exit.  Mazen took us over to the streets with the bazaar shops and told us to meet him in 45 minutes.  By the way, bazaars are called “souks” in Arabic.  We tried to say we needed longer, but he was insistent.  So we had 45 minutes to buy all the things that everyone had told us to wait and buy in Jerusalem.  We looked around, and found we were definitely in the Arab section.  We wanted Christian gifts.  We found a map in our bag and found we needed to walk quite a ways to any Christian Churches.  We set out but could not follow the map in the maze.

As we were standing trying to figure out where we were, we had a young man on a bike who offered to help us.  He said he was going our way, just follow him.  It was a long way and I despaired ever seeing Mazen again, but we went as we had friends we promised gifts from Jerusalem.  We got there after a half hour.  We now had 15 minutes to shop and get back.  We tried to gather things up quickly and with little bartering... oh no.... we rushed back the way we came.  As we were nearing the gate that Mazen was to meet us, a man ran up to us.  He was a shop owner from a shop Harry had tried to go into and look at rugs earlier in the day.  At that time,  Mazen had said we needed to go and shop later.  Harry really wanted to go back to the shop, so I told him I would go ahead and tell the others he was coming.

By the time, I got back to the van (walking alone in Jerusalem with heavily armed guards everywhere) I was ten minutes after the appointed time.  Yehya met me and scolded me, asking if I knew how hot it was waiting in the van.  I asked what the others were doing and he said eating.  I realized we had not had a meal all day.  We had fruit in the car earlier and the water and sweets by the church but that was all.  Anyway, we waited for Harry.  After about ten more minutes, I was really embarrassed and struck off to get Harry.  I got to the shop just as Harry was finishing haggling over a carpet.  I won’t even tell you how much he ended up paying for it.  It was silk and wool.  It was all wrapped up and to tell the truth, I did not care at that point if I liked it or not.

We raced to the van and Mazen and some of the kids were gone.  His first wife and two daughters had joined us.  I wondered if he was praying again or maybe looking for us.  Anyway, we proceeded to wait in the van for a long while for them to return.  We were given some Syrian bread and a single slice of luncheon meat and some water.  Finally Mazen came back and we headed for home.  Again, we saw the Bedouins, camels, fig and banana trees and got home very, very tired.  We did stop for ice cream and Harry paid as penance for being late.  He got along very well with Mazen.  I let the girls use my digital camera and gave them cranes and Japanese dolls that I had in my bag.  They are sweet girls and even with the language barrier (they spoke no English), we had a nice time.  When we got back to Dubbariya, now “home,” I showed the girls how to make origami hearts.  Their mother watched intently, and I wished I had time to go back to Nazareth and sit with the ladies and teach them some crafts and have them teach me some of theirs.  Perhaps on another visit. 

I did not feel well, and after some fruit went to bed early as we had a big day planned for Monday.

Journal 13 

A Kibbutz and Acre

On Monday, we found we were to be escorted by Raed and his lovely wife Sameha.  Sameha has lovely uncovered stylish hair and impeccable makeup.  Raed was full of knowledge, and he had a running commentary about everything.  I cannot remember nor do I have the time to write all he said, but will try to get the highlights.  Suffice it to say, he was knowledgeable, educated and impressive. He was the perfect host.  He asked Harry to help him with his English early on, and Harry accommodated with relish.

Our first stop was at the Gadzit Kibbutz.    We were met and escorted by Herbert.  He is Argentinean by birth.  His wife came from Poland to Argentina and she talked him into going to Israel some 55 years ago.  He came when he was twenty years old.

We started our visit with lunch in the cafeteria.  He said the food is very cheap for members.  The food had a lot of variety and was very good for institutional cooking.  I wanted to take a picture, but as happened often during the trip, I held back because I did not want to act like I was looking at animals in a zoo.  I often asked before I took pictures.

At this kibbutz there are 600 – 700 people.  Only 400 are members.  60% of the members are Argentinean.  The rest are from the US and the rest of the world.  This kibbutz is in a very good economic situation as opposed to many other kibbutz.  They have a plastics factory that makes packaging.  They export most of their products.  They bring in $50 - $60 million a year from this kibbutz.  80% comes from the factory and the rest is from cows which are used for both meat and milk.  They also have some cotton and organic food.  You work hard and you go on Saturday and the kibbutz gives you what you need.  The kibbutz provides education from kindergarten up to a master’s degree at no cost.  We asked what percentage of the kids stay at the kibbutz and he said about 50%.  The town has a very nice pool, tennis courts and their own school.  They now have eight Russian Families.  All members are Jewish, but not necessarily observant.  We went by the nursery and were told the young children are brought here as all mothers are required to work.  There was a nice coffee shop where people come to visit in the evenings.

We toured around and saw many very nice, well tended homes.  They have a place for old people who cannot live on their own any more.  There was a barbed wire fence all around the kibbutz.  We were taken to a memorial park for the Jews who died in World War II.  Of the 400 members of the kibbutz, 100 work outside the kibbutz.  They bring their pay to the kibbutz to put into the general pool of money.  Everyone gets the same pay.  If you are not happy, you are free to leave.  There is a central laundry which takes care of everyone’s clothes.  We went by the cattlee, both beef (400) and dairy (400) as well as sheep (1000).  The kibbutz has 55 cars.  If you want to use a car for some purpose, you sign it out, and pay so much per kilometer.  This, he emphasized is for members.  Everything is more for non-members.  They have free medical coverage.

I remember asking Herbert if he thought there could be peace but his usually cheery face darkened, and though I did not write down his answer, it was something in the line of hoping for peace, but wondering if it was possible.

Druze Village – Bukea

This was to be an Ecumenical day as our next stop was at a Druze village.  The Druze have been around for over 1000 years.  They are similar to the Muslims, except they do not do the praying and fasting that the Muslims do and the specifics of their religion remain a strict secret.  The Druze tend to live in the mountains on the edge of other civilizations.  The Druze do serve in the Israeli army and are treated pretty well by both sides.  Raed took us into the Mokhtar House.  This would have been the mayor’s house in the past.  Perhaps you could say the social center of the village.  Now it is set up for tourists.  It was long and dark and wonderful.  You could imagine belly dancers in scarves and men smoking water pipes.  There were handcrafts on the walls everywhere.  We were served. . . no, you are wrong this time:  tea!  The tea is made from something like 24 different plants.  It tasted like tea to me.  We went to the oldest part of the village and stood and ate ice cream and soaked in the ambiance.

 While traveling

Raed played a variety of music for us, and for one song he told us the meaning, and it was very romantic.  He has a way of translating that song that made me realize what his wife saw in him.  He said that music is not to be understood but to be felt.

Raed pointed out landmarks of ancient battles that he and Harry appreciated more than I.  He explained the bunker we had seen in Golan was from the 1973 war.  He was sorry he could not have been our guide in the Golan.  He knows a lot of history, and he and Harry were interested in the same things.  He told us that until they solve the Palestinian problem, there will not be peaceful borders with Jordan, Lebanon and Syria.  He said Israeli society is military.  Jews teach their children that the land was blank when they came.  The Jews do not learn to speak Arabic but the Arabs learn Hebrew.  I will need to find some Jewish people to talk to one day so I can get their side of these and other stories.  I know back home in Massachusetts, there was an ad on the radio that was in celebration of the 55th anniversary of Israel and in the ad, it said the Arabs teach their children to hate the Jews.  This did not seem to be so with the Arabs that I met so I will need to ask Jewish people what they teach their children.

Raed told us about a battle between Saladin and the Crusaders near the northern shore of the Sea of Galilee.  Saladin lined his men up along a cliff.  Just as the Crusaders got to them, charging, his soldiers parted and then closed in around them.  A victorious day for Saladin.

Rosh Hanikra

This is a natural wonder of chalk cliffs directly on the Lebanon border on the Mediterranean Sea.  It was spectacular.  Raed took us down to the bottom in a cable car and then we went into the caves.  Words can not describe the beauty.  We bumped into some Jews from Jerusalem who were originally from Pennsylvania.  We had a nice chat until they found we were with Arabs, and then the air turned chilly.  I wished them a cheery Shalom when we left.

Acre (Acco)

This city was the prize, the ultimate destination of the day.  It is an ancient city on the Mediterranean Sea.  We heard stories of Napolean and others in their fight to conquer this city.  This city has the only light house in Israel.  It is called Al-Fnar.  The city has a famous mosque called Jazr Mosque.  After spending some time on the wall looking at the sea and watching boys jumping some 30 or 40 feet into the water (some have died doing this) we set off for the jewel of Acre, Jazr Mosque.  When we got to the mosque, it was closed.  Again, the tourists were few and hours limited.  Raed tried to find the imam of the mosque, but, alas, could not get it opened.  We then went to the bizarre to find it almost all closed up, too.  We did find one open shop and bought a brass coffee pot and cups.

Again, exhausted by an extremely hot day we set off for “home” in Dubbariya.  We stopped at a Mr. Baguette, which was like a Subway.  We had a turkey sandwich, accompanied by the ever present salad, pronounced like “su” like in “supper” and “lad” with the accent on the “lad.”   Anyway, it was excellent, and as Raed pointed out, very clean.  We got home late and very happy for a pleasant day.  Again, we soon fell into bed exhausted with a smile on our faces.  The hospitality was phenomenal. 

I should mention here that we never paid for anything except for souvenirs.  Even then we sometimes had those paid for, or just plain were given gifts.  We weren’t trying to duck anything.  Our hosts were insistent.  Harry felt if he pressed the matter too far he would have insulted our hosts.  It was incredible.

Journal 14

Final Thoughts 

Three Wise Camels

When we were touring Nazareth, Yehya and his two cousins helped guide us and helped us haggle the prices down for the souvenirs we were purchasing.  At one booth, the man gave each of the boys a little stuffed camel for helping out.  The boys had Yehya write their names on the tags of the camels and give them to me.  Harry refers to the three camels on my computer monitor as the Three Wise Camels.  After all, the Three Wise Men had to ride on something!  The children are the hope of the future, the future of Israel and the future of the world.  My prayers go with you, boys.

Dubbariya

I will long remember sitting on a roof top or patio of homes in Dubbarya and Em-Mahel, and watching the Dubbariya moon, enjoying the peaceful feeling of being surrounded by these newfound friendships that I know will last a lifetime.  I will remember coffee, tea, and wonderful sweets.  (Yes, I gained close to five pounds)  I will remember laughing and joking, or just smiling because everyone else is laughing, and I missed it.  (That happens here too.)  I rarely stop to enjoy such feelings in the USA with my busy life.  I want to thank Taha Massalha, his lovely wife Dina, and their children for welcoming us into their home and making us to feel like family.  I want to thank their many, many friends who welcomed us, fed us and guided us all over Israel.  The reputation for gracious hospitality for which Arabs are famous is well deserved.

I pray for peace in their hearts, and in their lives.  God bless them.

Harry and Glenna